Monday, May 18, 2009

Outlook important? 外表重要吗?

最近,经常看到一些男孩子忙着去健身,希望能有结实的肌肉来吸引女孩;另一方面,则看到一些女生忙着去美容中心护肤,养颜来吸引男生。

外表真的在一段感情里扮演着这么重要的角色吗?

如果我们问男生、女生,你一年内花费多少钱来增加你外表的吸引力?我想那肯定很多!可是,如果我们问,你一年内花费多少钱来增加你内在的魅力?我想应该不多,或者甚至没有!

我从来不否认外表的确是重要,因为美丽的外表能吸引人家的注意力!可是,要维持一段感情考的应该是内在呀!
因为外表是短暂的,只有内在才能永恒!

随着今天的科技,只要你有钱,你可以毫不费力地美化一个人的外表,就算一个丑小鸭,也能变成飞天鹅!可是,以同样的钱、科技,你却不能美化一个人的内在!内在是不能被美化的,除非你自己肯付出!

是的,你能轻而易举的美化外表,却不能如此轻易地美化内在,所以说,内在比外表来得重要,你认同吗?

Well.. recently I see some of my guys friends going to gym, keen to get his body shape up so that they can attract girls. On the other hand, I see some of my girls’ friends going to saloon, keen to change a new outlook to attract guys.

Is outlook really so important in a relationship?

To me, it’s insane that so many people are caring about their outlook,
but there are really not much people caring about their inner beauty.
If you ask agirls / guys how much they spend each year to shop for clothes? I assure you, the amount is going to be huge.
But what if you ask them, how much money do you spend each year to build a better inner self? toattend seminar, training, etc? I assure you, the amount will not be big, or not even spending.

I never deny that outlook is important, outlook attracts people attention, but it’s inner beauty that mantain arelationship. I don’t care if you have the perfect bodyshape, etc. But if I choose to be with you, the reason must be because of your inner beauty.
Outlook is short and temporary, what last forever is our inner strength.

With the technology today, you can beautify a girl easily, if you have the money, it's possible to convert an ugly, disgusting girl to miss universe. But with the same technology, you’re not able to beautify the innerstrength of a person. Unless they take action to go for it.

Yes, with the technology we have today, we can beautify our outlook with money, but you can't do the same to increase our inner beauty / inner strength, do you agree with this statement?

18 comments:

  1. Yes correct, inner beauty is more important than outlook. The important thing is pure Heart :)

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  2. 外表有一定的重要,尤其是初次见面,
    可以给人更好的印象。

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  3. lovelyangel, Yes I share the same opinion with you.

    Ashley, 外表的确有它的重要性,但我不认为它会比内在来得重要。

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  4. Yes, I agree with that, inner beauty is indeed important!

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  5. 虽然我也很爱美,可是我觉得你说的也很有道理,现在的确很少人会在意内在美了。。。

    Ting

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  6. Ting, 是啊,越来越少人注重内在了,哈!

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  7. 我没有内在美,也没有外在美,怎么办??:0(

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  8. 我很爱美,但不是为了表现给男生看,而是给自己一种满足感

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  9. 嗯,对我来说内外兼具最重要。
    外表的美观会让人对你印象良好,内涵的美丽会让人进而欣赏、尊敬你。
    所谓外表的美观不是指一定要具有亮丽迷人的外貌和傲人的身材,而是懂得把自己的仪表打理得干净整齐。

    试问一个邋邋遢遢,不修边幅的人又怎么会得到别人的好感呢?

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  10. 嗯,对我来说内外兼具最重要。
    外表的美观会让人对你印象良好,内涵的美丽会让人进而欣赏、尊敬你。
    所谓外表的美观不是指一定要具有亮丽迷人的外貌和傲人的身材,而是懂得把自己的仪表打理得干净整齐。

    试问一个邋邋遢遢,不修边幅的人又怎么会得到别人的好感呢?

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  11. Ya, I agreed. Having a genuine heart is important, as external beauty will fade one day.

    So, dun judge a person by his/her beauty ya^_^

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  12. Candygan, 对自己有信心就是美丽的开始!

    杨宝贝,爱美无罪,希望在照顾外在美的同时也在意内在美呀!

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  13. 寒雨,是啊,认同你内外并重的观念!

    Joanna, You're right, never judge a book by its cover.

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  14. 内在很重要,可是外表也重要.人不用太漂亮,但至少要外观整齐,让身边的人留下好印象,才有机会让别人慢慢发掘内在美哦;)

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  15. Eeyore Jane, 你说得不错,所以说内外并重嘛!

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  16. 呵呵,以前我就是自以为很有内在美,所以都不注重外在,结果吃亏不少耶。。。

    虽然有句话说
    Don't judge a book by its cover...

    但事实上,每个人都会有个先入为主的观念,是在所难免的。。。

    所以,内外,绝对同样重要 :)

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