Sunday, May 31, 2009

如果你还能活着,一定要勇敢活下去~!

年前翻开报纸,阅读着一则则的中国四川省地震新闻,不仅让人感叹世事难料~!

我还强烈的记得,其中一则特别捉住了我的注意力,看了让我感慨万分。
拯救队伍于前天在废墟中发现了一具女尸,双腿跪在地上,双手挺住地上以支撑体重,背部被压得变了形。
然而吸引我的地方是拯救人员在她怀里找到了还活着的3个月大婴儿,由于获得母亲以身体保护,这婴儿豪发无损,还很健康。

医生在这婴儿身上找到了一部手机,里边写着:-“亲爱的宝贝,如果你还能活着,一定要勇敢活下去,永远记住我爱你!”所有的拯救人员,看到这一幕时,无不暗然落泪!

亲爱的朋友们,生命是多么的无常,也因为无常所以显得珍贵!幸运的我们有没有勇敢的活下去?

有些人幸运地没有遇到灾难,却自己选择结束生命。
真不明白正当有些人要活也无法活着的当儿,偏偏又有一些人可以活着,却选择结束。。。我们是否有珍惜这份得来不易的生命?
有没有好好活出生命色彩?
是否想过,有朝一日,当我们也趟在那儿无奈的等待生命结束时,我们是否活得无悔?
我们又是否有真正感谢过以生命来保护我们的双亲呢?

感恩要及时,爱要趁早表达。。。

Saturday, May 30, 2009

小人之心·

有一位单身女子刚搬了家,她发现隔壁住了一户穷人家, 一个寡妇与两个小孩子。
Once, there is a single woman, moving into a new house, where her neighbour were a poor family, consist of a widow and 2 childrens.

有天晚上,那一带忽然停了电,那位女子只好自己点起了蜡烛。
One night, there is a power failure, that single woman has to light a candle...

没一会儿,忽然听到有人敲门。原来是隔壁邻居的小孩子,只见他紧张地问:「阿姨,请问你家有蜡烛吗?」
女子心想:「他们家竟穷到连蜡烛都没有吗?千万别借他们,免得被他们依赖了! 」於是,对孩子吼了一声说:「没有!」
Not long after that, there is a sudden knock on the door. It's from the children of next door, asking, "Aunty, do you have candle in your house?" That woman think, "Aren't they so poor that there is no extra money to buy a candle? I should not give it to them, else they will be too dependent on me!" "No, I don't" She answer with a light smile.

正当她准备关上门时,那穷小孩展开关爱的笑容说:「我就知道你家一定没有!」 说完,竟从怀里拿出两根蜡烛,说:「妈妈和我怕你一个人住又没有蜡烛,所以我带两根来送你。」
When she is about to shut the door, that children smile and say, "I know you sure will not have one! There you go, my mother ask me to give it to you!"

此刻女子自责、感动得热泪盈眶,将那小孩子紧紧地拥在怀里。That woman feel so bad, tears flows out from her eyes, she hugged the children tight...

是的,在现实生活里,我们有多少人不是像那女子一样呢?人家还没讲完,我们就已小人之心度君子之腹呢?为什么我们不肯给他一个讲完的机会,然后才来判断呢?
Yes, in the real life, how many of us were like that women? who start judging people without finished listening to him? Why not give him a chance to finish before we judge?

Thursday, May 28, 2009

选择。。。

'我老婆是公司的经理,经常在外应酬,小孩很少带,家务事很少做。
我真希望她在家的时间能多一些,做一个贤妻良母型的家庭主妇。'
甲男人喝了一口酒,无奈地说。

'我老婆没有工作,就在家带带孩子,做做家务,成天粘着我。
没钱了就伸手找我要。
我真希望他能像你老婆一样能干,会赚钱。'
乙男人抽了一口烟,叹了口气说。

'你当初为什么要娶她做老婆呢?' 甲男人问。
'那时我事业有成,我喜欢她的温柔贤慧,
我对她没多少要求,就希望她能做个贤内助。'
乙男人回忆着说,'那你呢?为什么会娶她?'

'那时,我就是看上她的工作能力,欣赏她对工作的热情,
被她职业女性的气质所吸引。' 甲男人说。

邻座,两个女人喝着咖啡,也在谈论着各自的老公。
'我老公英俊潇洒,风流倜傥,事业有成,身边总有一些女人缠着他。
真让人没有一点安全感,虽然住在宽敞房子里,
可我的心总是孤独的,我宁愿他穷点。' 丙女人说。

'我老公没什么本事,收入平平,成天围着我转,
我真希望他能像你老公一样有钱,
能让我活得跟你一样风风光光,潇潇洒洒。' 丁女人说。

'你当初为什么要嫁给他呢?' 丙女人问。
'那时我就是想找一个平凡一点的人,有安全感,能在意我,经常陪着我。'
丁女人说,'那你为什么要嫁给他呢?'

'那时我就是看上他的英俊潇洒,事业有成,
有车有房,我觉得他能让我过上好日子。' 丙女人说。

这两个男人和女人都在婚后埋怨着自己的婚姻。
生活中许多人都是看着别人的好,却忘记了自己选择的初衷。
当初你毅然地选择了什么样的伴侣,
是因为你觉得那样的伴侣更适合你,更能给你幸福。

一个男人,如果你想找一个职业女强人做你的妻子,
那么婚后你就不要埋怨她对你关心少,做家务少。
如果你想找一个温柔贤慧家庭主妇型的女人,
婚后你就别嫌她不如别人家的女人能干,能赚钱,
就别怪她每天伸手找你要钱。
如果婚前你选择了一个其貌不扬但很有内涵,
并能给你安全感的女人做你的妻子,
那么婚后就别嫌弃她不如别人的女人漂亮,别叫她黄脸婆。

一个女人,如果你选择了一个英俊潇洒大众情人般的男人,
婚后你就别为有一些女人围在他身边而吃醋。
如果你选择了一个花花公子型的大款男人,婚后就不要为他会找情人而痛苦。
如果你选择了一个事业心太强,太会赚钱的男人,
婚后你就别为他整天忙于工作,没时间陪你而埋怨。
如果你选择了一个整天围着你转,疼爱、在意你但很平凡的男人,
婚后你就别因为他没有别的男人会赚钱而数落他。

每个人都不可能十全十美,每个人的婚姻也不可能那么幸福完满。
别去数落对方的不完美,因为你自己本身也不完美。
有得到就必定有失去,别忘记当初你最需要的是什么。
接受你所选择的,克服一切困难过好日子,才是最重要的。

选择了,就去面对,请别忘记了自己的初衷。

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

端午节 Dumpling Festival

早上刚吃过粽子,味道真的很不错!
Just eat a dumpling this morning, like the taste of it!
今天是端午节!端午节也是中华民族优秀的3000年文化当中的其中一个传统节日。。。
Today is the dumpling festival for chinese, it's among the 3000 years of chinese rich cultural history.

为什么会有端午节呢?端午节的由来是什么,你知道吗?Do you know why do we have dumpling festival?

很多人会说,端午节是源自于屈原投江自尽后,为了纪念屈原而设的日子,事实上,端午节早在屈原还没有投江自尽之前,已经有了!当初端午节的出现是为了要祭拜河神,古人认为洪水是河神发怒的结果,为防止端午大水把秧苗什么的冲走,举行的一列祭祀活动,希望河神高兴,五谷丰登。只是屈原投江更加让人们记住了这一天,也增加了吃粽子,赛龙舟等庆祝方式。
Rumours said that dumpling festival starts from the day of the famous minister called 'chu yuan' commit suicide by jumping into a river. However, in the real case dumpling festival actually does exist even before this suicidal incident. It actually begins by people praying to the 'god of river' for peace and rich agricultural collection. They believed that water flooding the padi field is actually a sign of anger by 'god of river', hence they choose this day to pray the river god, so there will be no flood, and as a result they can get richer plantation collection!

忠臣屈原于五月初五, 因为被奸人所害而自投汨罗江,死后为蛟龙所困,世人哀之,每于此日投五色丝粽子于水中,以驱蛟龙。屈原投汨罗江后,当地百姓闻讯马上划船捞救,一直行至洞庭湖,终不见屈原的尸体。人们争相划进茫茫的洞庭湖。为了寄托哀思,人们荡舟江河之上,此后才逐渐发展成为龙舟竞赛。‘看来,端午节吃粽子、赛龙舟与纪念屈原相关,有唐代文秀《端午》诗为证:
“节分端午自谁言,万古传闻为屈原。堪笑楚江空渺渺,不能洗得直臣冤。”
'chu yuan' the famous chinese minister commit suicide by jumping into into a river on this day too. Many believed that he commit suicide because he was betray by the cunning minister. The people believed that 'chu yuan' was trapped by the water dragon, hence they wrap rice, meat, etc. with leaves and dumb them into the river, by hope that the water dragon will eat their offering item and release 'chu yuan.' Besides, they also try to find the body of 'chu yuan' by rowing boat across the river. Hence, today we eat rice dumpling and row dragon boat during this dumpling festival!

是的,端午节其实是我们华人传统文化的一部分,你对端午节又有什么见解呢?我们要保护我们的文化,因为文化是人类文明的见证,你认同吗? 端午节也告诉我们,只要我们为人忠直,热爱人民,即使有朝一日我们受人所害,世人也不会将我们忘掉,对吗? 今年的端午节,你吃粽子了吗?
Dumpling festival is actually a part of our chinese cultural history, how do you understand about this festival? We need to protect our cultural, as it's the witness of modernization, do you agree with that? Besides, dumpling festival also remind us that so long as we remain integrity and passionately loved our people, we'll never be forgotten, am I right? Have you ate any dumpling today?

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

正面与负面,Positive VS Negative

Yes, we're talking about Positive and Negative in this post. Whatever things / incident happening around us might consist of positive and negative value, depending on how we look at this issue.
正面与负面的思想。任何事情都有正面与负面价值,这要看我们如何看带着些事情。

e.g. During economy downturn, some may see it as a crisis, as a result they are panic! some may see it as an opportunity, as a result they may seize the opportunity to invest in low price property!
在经济低靡的时候,有些人会认为那是危机,他们惊慌失措!有些人会看成是机会,他们会把握机会趁低吸纳!

Another example, during a failure, some may see it as sad, down, etc. Some may see that as an opportunity to learn!
当遇到失败时,有些人会伤心,失望,绝望;有的则看成是学习的机会!

No matter how you see the issue, positive thinking may result in energetic, hopeful, cheerful; while negative may result in opposite! Positive thinkers may solve all the challenge ahead, while negative thinkers may blame all the problems they face. So, which do you prefer positive thinking or negative thinking?
正面思想将带来力量,希望,快乐;反面思想则相反!正面思想者将能够解决一切的难题,挑战;反面思考则将推卸所有的困难为命运不好!那,你希望拥有何种思想呢?正面或负面?

Monday, May 25, 2009

Importance of Backup! 后备的重要性!

After 1 day of computer shut down, I manage to get it up this morning!
经过1天的电脑抢修,我终于成功在今早继续使用我的手提电脑了!

Throughout the process I realise how important it is for us to do back up and recovery disc, and keep them up to date.
经过这次抢修的经验,我发现‘后备’以及‘复原’光碟真的很重要,我们必须收好!

Recovery disc contains all the driver required, so in case you need to re-format your computer, you need those driver! If you do not have the recovery disc, you might need to search and download all the driver from internet!
复原光碟里头必须拥有你所有必须的driver!如果没有复原光碟,我们就必须上网逐个下载,非常麻烦!

Back up disc, is to backup all the important files we have from time to time, suggest that we back up our data either in pen drive, portable disc or DVD regularly, so in case you need to reformat your computer, you still keep all the valuable data!
后备光碟则是我们将所有重要文件储藏在里头的,我们应该经常更新此碟,万一需要重新安装,我们重要的文件也不会不见!

是的,复原光碟以及后备光碟都很重要的,你准备了吗?Yes, the backup and recovery disc is very important, have you get them ready today?

Sunday, May 24, 2009

how do you spend your weekend?

How do you spend your past weekend? 你怎么度过周末呢?
On Saturday, I had to came back to office to work. 在周六,我还得回去办公室工作!
On Sunday, I had attended an event on a local temple. 在周日,我去参与一个本地庙宇的庆典。
Today, my laptop is encountering some problems, I'm now online using my colleague laptop。今天,我的手提电脑出现问题,现在用着我‘同事’的手提电脑。

might not be able to visit your blog these 2 days. 所以这两天应该不能过去你们的Blog了。

How about your weekend? How do you spend it?
你如何度过你的周末呢?

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Detail explanation on GPS 讲解卫星导航系统

There were a lot of enquiry interested to know more about the GPS system. 今天收到很多关于GPS系统的询问。
GPS, also known as Global Positioning System, is a system that will assist the driver by making use of the satellite to guide them to reach their destination without difficulties .
卫星导航的简称为GPS或者是全球位置鉴定系统,它能协助司机在陌生的环境里轻易的到达目的地。
GPS is a small device with 3-5" touch screen monitor (depends on the model of GPS you buy) that will stick to your car front mirror easily, and plug the adaptor into the cigarettes burner slot. Once you switch it on, it will search for satellites, once a connection was set up, it will show your current position, you can set your destination address, it will then calculate the route and guide you throughout your journey on which road to take, where to turn, etc. GPS 是一个小型的器具,有着3-5寸的触摸式荧幕(荧幕的大小视不同的型号而定)你可以将它黏在玻璃镜上,并插入香烟点燃座,当你开启它后,它就会自动找寻与卫星连接,当连接成功建立后,它就会显示你现在所在的位置,你可以输入你要到目的地的地址,然后它将自动寻找最快捷的道路前往该目的地,它将完善的告诉你要走哪一条道路,然后转那个方向,等等。
One of the famous GPS system is GARMIN, the cheapest model in Malaysia so far cost about RM800+/-, you can get it either from ebay, lelong or from most of specialty shop the sell PDA phone. 其中相当著名的品牌是Garmin,在马来西亚最便宜的型号大约需要RM800左右,能从Ebay,lelong等网站购得,或者去掌心电脑专卖店查询!

Friday, May 22, 2009

卫星导航,反省。。。GPS, Self Realisation...

“没有反省的人生,是空白,没有意义的!”Living without realisation may leads to empty and meaningless life!

上几个星期,驾车去KL时车里装了GPS卫星导航系统,真的方便很多,只要我们设定好目标,GPS就会自动教我哦们走最快的路从现在的位置去到目的地,如果当中走错路也不怕,因为它会从新计算,再教你如何从错路中走回正路!Last few weeks, I've installed a GPS in my car to guide me during my trip to KL, it's so convinient! So long as I've set the destination, it will automatically guide me to use the fastest route to reach the destination, even if I take the wrong turn, ending up in the wrong road, GPS will always guide me back to the main road!

是的,GPS为什么好用?有人说因为它有地图,其实如果只是地图的话,你也可以买一份地图呀,根本不需要GPS。那,GPS的过人之处在哪里?是的,卫星导航,顾名思义就是他有卫星追踪着我们的汽车,我们走到哪里,GPS都能知道,也能教导我们下一步应该走什么路!Yes, so what's the major benefit of a GPS? Some may argue that it's the map inside the system! If that is so, you may just buy a piece of map to drive, why do you need to install GPS? To me, the major benefit of a GPS lies on the tracking, the satellite is able to track our car, know our position clearly, so that it can guide us on the next road to take!

人生何尝也不是如此?当你设下目标后,你大可以从‘地图’当中找寻一条通往你目标最快捷的通道, 可是如果我们没有时常自我反省,了解我们现在的位置的话,我们要如何部署下一步行动呢?就像GPS一样,如果他没有卫星跟踪我们的车,它怎么知道我们下一条路应该怎么走呢?如果它不能教我们下一步怎么走的话,那GPS也就失去了导航能力呀!The same theory applies to ourlife, right after we set our goal, we can always figure out from our 'brain map' on our route to take to reach the goals. But if we do not reflect and do self realisation regularly, to understand our current position, how are we going to know where are we now? and where should we go next? It's the same thing as GPS, the satellite must be able to keep track of our car position in order to guide us!

所以反省是很重要的,它让我们知道我们目前正在朝目标迈进还是在倒退!举个例子,如果一个人要戒烟,可是本来一天抽3支,现在一天抽4支,他能如期戒掉烟吗?如果他不反省,他能知道他每天都在离他的目标越来越远吗?所以,反省是自我前进的导航系统,你认同吗?Realisation is indeed important, it may let us know if we're marching towards our goal or marching backwards! For example, if one set to quit smoking within 3 months, if he originally smokes 3 cigarettes a day, and now taking 4 cigarettes, will he ever quit? If he don't do self realisation, will he know that he is actually moving backward from his goal? Hence, self realisation is a system to guide us along the route, do you agree with that?

Thursday, May 21, 2009

A new life! 新生活!

Below are one of the important session among the motivation seminar I've attended...
以下是我所参加激励课程中,其中一个最重要的环节。。。

Imagine you've on board a huge 5 star vacation cruise, everything was so nice, the water flushing along side of the cruise, you enjoy all the facilities on board, everything seems so perfect....

想象着你正在高高兴兴的乘搭一辆5星际豪华邮轮,一切都那么的美好,海水沿着邮轮边掀起了一朵朵的浪花,你正在享受着5星级的豪华设备。。。

Suddenly, captain announce through the speaker, "SHIP IS SINKING! LEAVE THE SHIP AS FAST AS。。。。!" PUMP!!! the wave hit the ship before the captain finish his announcement, the ship sink fast, nobody manage to escape....

忽然,广播响起,“邮轮正在往下沉,尽早离。。。”砰!广播还没念完,船就迅速往下沉了,没有人来得及逃生。。。

Yes, you're right! Nobody is able to escape alive! All being drowned into the deep pacific ocean! You're struggling to float, while every breath you try to take actually forces you to drink more and more sea water! You're struggling hard to survive, but you can't!

是的,你没有听错!没有人能够生存!全部都被淹进太平洋海底了!你争扎这要浮上来,可是当你辛苦的想吸一口气时,海水却一口口的吞进肚子里,双脚一直,你离开了。。。

There lies your body in the deep sea, your eyes shut tight forever! Do you leave this world peacefully without regret? What are the things that you really want to do, but you have yet to do? Why wait? If not now, then when?

你身体正在太平洋地下,双眼从此紧闭!你是否今生无悔呢?你是否已经完成了你所要的东西呢?如果没有,为什么没有?如果不是现在,几时?

You're lucky, all the above were just nightmares, you're still alive! So why not live your life to the fullest? Do what you really want!

你很幸运,以上全部皆是恶梦,你还生存着!为什么不要珍惜生命?做你所要做的!别等了!

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Get Success by your thinking now! 成功的思维!

From what I have studied...

The factor that differentiate a mediocre person and a successful person is his mentality and thinking. What they see and what they think is completely opposite.

一个区分成功与不成功者的重要因素就是那个人的思想,两者的思想截然不同,完全相反。

You can often listen to mediocre / middle class people saying phrases like this, “I'm not capable to do this!” / "I can't do it!” / “I've never try this before, I don't think I can handle it!” / “It’s too risky to try what I don't know, I’d rather do what I'm comfortable of” etc, etc.
Those people see scarcity in money, they see that safe and secure is the best way, they feel that they're not good enough.
Guess what? As a result, their money is never enough, they're never good enough!

你经常可以听到一些普通的人说,“我没有能力做这!”、“我不能做这!”、“我从来都不曾做过这种东西,我不认为我能做好它!”、“要我做我不曾做过的东西,太冒险了,我干脆做回我熟悉的东西!”等等。。。

For successful people, they often said, “This is not a big deal, I’ll find way to do it if I really want it.” / “Though I don't know about it, but I believe that I'm able to learn it fast!” / “Although I never do this in the past, but it doesn't means that I cannot do it!” / “To not invest and save in bank is high risk, because inflation will eat up my money!”
They see the world of abundance... They see the world of possible, they believe everything is possible if they want it!

在另一边,我们则看到那些成功者,他们经常说,“这不是什么大事,如果我真的想要,我一定会想办法完成的!”、“虽然我不懂得这些东西,可是我相信我很快就能掌握!”、“虽然我过去不曾做过类似的东西,可是这不代表我不能完成它!”、“不投资,是高风险的,因为通货膨胀将把我的钱缩小!”他们看到一切都可能,他们相信他们有能力做他们所要的东西!

So, the factor that determines a person success or not is not money, it’s their thinking. Do you agree with that?

所以说,一个区分成功者与不成功者最大的因素在于他们的思想而不是金钱,你赞成吗?

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

吸烟。。。Smoking...

“如果我有一百万,我会买车买屋子。。。”黄一飞的这首福建歌,唱得家喻户晓,这么多人喜欢的原因,我想是因为,他正好唱出很多人的心声,很多人都想有一百万!一百万,看似遥远,却又那么近!对那些在马来西亚吸烟的人士,‘恭喜你!你就是每年花费8百万令吉的一群!’是的,我国的烟民每年平均花费8百万,来吞咽吐雾,来买癌症,来缩短生命!

有些男士认为,吸了烟男士气概尽露无疑,展现了男人的作风!可是,他们不知道吸烟会硬化我们的血管,而男性在勃起时是需要大量的血流向阴茎,所以说,烟是导致性无能的最佳良方!
在2007年,吸烟者占据了中国性无能男士中的四分之一!

我打从心底不喜欢那些手不离烟酒的亲人,因为他们比谁都还自私,只顾自己短暂的快乐,缩短自己的性命,让爱他的人提早受苦。

我们必须知道,我们活在这世界上,是不能单独生活的。所以,我们所做的每一个大大小小地决定都会影响到我们身边的人。因此,每当有人说,“我要抽烟,喝酒,又没用到你的钱,管你屁事?”我都会觉得他们很不知所谓。如果他们中了干癌或肺癌,你说他们家人会怎样?

有些人说,“不是每个吸烟喝酒的人都会出事的,有些不抽烟喝酒也短命!”我只好说,“那是你自欺欺人的‘国阵’想法!”只因为他们都像马来西亚国阵政府一样,宁可继续自甘堕落,也不愿重视民意数据。
人不贵于无过,只贵于肯改过,回头是岸吧!

下一次如果有烟民高唱,‘如果我有一百万。。。’我们就告诉他,不用如果了,戒掉烟,你就能够享用那8百万的其中一部分了!

是的,我觉的吸烟是破坏健康的,也破坏了身边朋友对健康,也将导致性无能,所以何必花费8百万来买这些负面的健康呢?你认同吗?

Talking about smoking cigarettes in this post. In Malaysia, every year smokers spend RM8 million to purchase cigarettes, which is also equivalent to purchase 'higher cancer rate, shorter lifespend!'

Some guys may think that smoking may show their manhood, their style as a MAN! Since a lot of cigarettes advertisement says, "Elegance, Style, Quality!" But smoking actually harden the blood vessels, which may block the blood flow in our body! Blood flow is an important factor in sexual activities, for men! Hence, I could safely conclude that smoking may finally lead to sexual disability in future for men!

To back my statement above, in 2007 alone, smokers stands 25% or one quarter of the total number of sexual disability patient!

To me, I think smoking is a selfish act, because smokers actually enjoy short term happiness, and bring long term pain to their family members when they pass away earlier...

Many people may like to sing a hokkien song from Huang Yit Fei "If I have 1 million, I will buy a house, buy a car..." next time, if a smoker sing this, we should tell him "Why IF? you can be part of the RM8million owner, if you stop smoking!"

Yes, smoking actually spends us a lot of money and yet jeopardise our health, hence let's STOP SMOKING immediately! do you agree with quitting smoking?

Monday, May 18, 2009

Outlook important? 外表重要吗?

最近,经常看到一些男孩子忙着去健身,希望能有结实的肌肉来吸引女孩;另一方面,则看到一些女生忙着去美容中心护肤,养颜来吸引男生。

外表真的在一段感情里扮演着这么重要的角色吗?

如果我们问男生、女生,你一年内花费多少钱来增加你外表的吸引力?我想那肯定很多!可是,如果我们问,你一年内花费多少钱来增加你内在的魅力?我想应该不多,或者甚至没有!

我从来不否认外表的确是重要,因为美丽的外表能吸引人家的注意力!可是,要维持一段感情考的应该是内在呀!
因为外表是短暂的,只有内在才能永恒!

随着今天的科技,只要你有钱,你可以毫不费力地美化一个人的外表,就算一个丑小鸭,也能变成飞天鹅!可是,以同样的钱、科技,你却不能美化一个人的内在!内在是不能被美化的,除非你自己肯付出!

是的,你能轻而易举的美化外表,却不能如此轻易地美化内在,所以说,内在比外表来得重要,你认同吗?

Well.. recently I see some of my guys friends going to gym, keen to get his body shape up so that they can attract girls. On the other hand, I see some of my girls’ friends going to saloon, keen to change a new outlook to attract guys.

Is outlook really so important in a relationship?

To me, it’s insane that so many people are caring about their outlook,
but there are really not much people caring about their inner beauty.
If you ask agirls / guys how much they spend each year to shop for clothes? I assure you, the amount is going to be huge.
But what if you ask them, how much money do you spend each year to build a better inner self? toattend seminar, training, etc? I assure you, the amount will not be big, or not even spending.

I never deny that outlook is important, outlook attracts people attention, but it’s inner beauty that mantain arelationship. I don’t care if you have the perfect bodyshape, etc. But if I choose to be with you, the reason must be because of your inner beauty.
Outlook is short and temporary, what last forever is our inner strength.

With the technology today, you can beautify a girl easily, if you have the money, it's possible to convert an ugly, disgusting girl to miss universe. But with the same technology, you’re not able to beautify the innerstrength of a person. Unless they take action to go for it.

Yes, with the technology we have today, we can beautify our outlook with money, but you can't do the same to increase our inner beauty / inner strength, do you agree with this statement?

Sunday, May 17, 2009

失败?别怕!Failure? Don't worry!

当我们还小的时候,当我们还在求学时,如果我们考到不好的成绩,
父母就会把那解读为愚笨、失败!
对我来说,这世上是没有愚笨、失败的,除非你自己认为你是如此!

我相信:-
1. 过去的失败不代表你以后也将失败!我不管过去你失败过几次,因为那无法代表什么,只要你肯从失败中学习然后再站起来再试!所以,过去的失败根本不能代表什么!
2. 没有失败,只有暂时停止成功!只要我们不停的学习,站起来然后再试,那就永远没有失败,只有暂时停止成功!
3. 这世界上没有人能打败你,除了你自己!只有你自己可以决定你是失败的!

是的,我相信这世界上过去的失败,不代表以后都失败!没有失败,只有暂时停止成功,没有人能打败你,只有你能打败你自己!你,认同吗?


When we’re small and when we’re in schools, if we get low grades in the exam,
our parents define that as stupid and failure.
To me, nobody in this world is stupid or failure, unless he, himself think so.

I believe in the following:-
1. Failing in the past does not means you’re going to fail in the future. I don’t care how many times you’ve fail in the past, that does not shows me anything, as long as you can learn from mistake and redo again, then failing in the past does not carry any meaning.
2. There is no failure, but temporary delay of success.There is never a failure, unless we admit it. There isonly a temporary delay of success, as long as we stand up again, there is nothing as failure.
3. Nobody can beat you, only you, yourself. Nobody in this world can beat you, only you, yourself can define yourself as failure.

Yes, to me, failing in the past does not means anything in the future! There is no railure, only a temporary delay of success! Nobody can beat you, only you, yourself can define yourself as failure! Do you agree to that?

Thursday, May 14, 2009

短暂的记忆!

最近看到敦马说的‘人民的记忆是短暂的!’除了评论他的言论之外,我倒是觉得他说的这个‘短暂’还蛮有道理的!
是的,我们的记忆都很短暂,曾经在一个讲座会里听过,‘我们的记忆过了几个小时后,就只剩下50%了,再没多久我们就会忘了。。。’
要如何延长我们短暂的记忆呢?
专家说,我们还有大部分的脑是还没有开发的,那是属于不知觉的(Subconscious Mind)!
如果我们要延长,就必须把听到的写出来,然后去实行,才会记得长远!
所以说,知而不行还不如不知呀!你认同吗?

敦马给政府的新方向!

老马最近给了政府一个新方向,那就是霹雳州不用重新选举,因为选举民联一定稳操胜卷!
去年选过了,今年为何还要再选?他说,人民的记忆是短暂的!

是的,那就是老马的真面目了,铁腕政治!我说老马呀,如果你一年前选购了一部叫‘民联’的车,可是一年后,当你拿回去Service时,他们换了一部‘国阵’的车给你,你会收货吗?你会甘心吗?你当然不会收货呀!你必定要会原本一年前你选的那部车!
这么简单的道理,你都不懂吗?
我们已经对国阵厌倦了!可是,我们仍然会记得如今的混乱是国阵利诱人民代表跳槽所制造出来的!

我们认为,重新选举不会浪费资源的,因为浪费这些钱过后,我们能够选出一个真正为人民的政府!国阵50年做不到的事情,比如:新村地契,华校制度化拨款,等只要一个选举过后,全部都能在1年内得到,你说,我们人民怎么会认为是浪费资源呢?
我想你所指的浪费资源是对国阵
吧?

民主的过程必定是混乱的,你看台湾等国家,混乱是民主必经的过程!
这叫先苦后甜,所以,我们不怕混乱,我们只要确保我们能够迈向健康的两线制民主!
因为308过后我们已经看到了,只有两线制的出现,才能把50年来不可能的事变成可能!
暂时的混乱,我们不会介意,因为我们追求的是长远的前途,我们下一代的前途!
两线制,才是我们的终极目标!

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

身为华人的骄傲!My pride of becoming a chinese!

昨晚,我朋友和我开个玩笑,“为什么你在去了美国深造后,还会活跃于你本身传统的信仰,佛教和道教?”

这句话让我回想起以前在美国深造的时候,你不难发觉那边的人都很以他们所相信的基督教为荣!你再看看回教国家,那里的人民也都已回教为荣!
可是为什么,马来西亚的华人却以‘自由思想(没有宗教)为荣呢?
为什么他们的家里不愿意置放佛、神像呢?
这里的年轻人把没有宗教视为新潮,高科技,受过高教育的象征。。。

这就是为什么我的朋友会问我,"为什么你从美国回来之后,还会相信这些宗教?”
我不认为自己的宗教与受过高等教育有何冲突呀!

我身为华人最大的骄傲就是我们拥有3000年的文化历史!
这是洋人,马来人,其它种族所无法比较的!
世界上最长历史的文化就是华人文化!

为什么我们不为自己的文化而感到骄傲?
宗教真的和你受过高等教育、高薪工作有冲突吗?
我不这么认为,你呢?

Last night, My friend is joking with her that despite graduating from USA, I still believe in my own religion, which is Taoist mixed buddhist.

I recalled back during my study in USA years ago, you can easily find that most of the people are proud of their religion, Christian~!
When I look at Islamic Country, Malay girls are mostly cover with tudung, they’re also proud of becoming a muslim~!
But why for the chinese in Malaysia, they’re proud of becoming free thinker?
Why they would not like to have a god statue in their house?
The young people here sees free thinking as a type of modern, a symbol of their high education.

That’s why my friend says, "Why are you still believing in this after graduating from USA?"
I don’t see if there is any problem of believing with our own religion by having high education.

The biggest pride of becoming a chinese is 3000 years of culture~!
This is unbeatable by English, Malay, Indian, etc.
The longest history of culture is chinese culture~!

Why don’t we feel proud of our own culture?
Does religion really crashes with having high education / high income?
I don't think so, what about you?

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Vesak Day 卫塞节的感想!

"希望佛陀能够保佑我们生意兴隆,财源广进!”星期五晚,当我去膜拜佛陀时,听到一些人嘴里小小声的念着。。。

是的,Vesak Day 就落在5月9日星期六,虽然今年,我在卫塞节当天必须赶往KL出席展览会,因而未能如以往般出席佛教花车的游行。。。可是,我在前一晚还是到了槟城佛总膜拜,浴佛,诵经。。。

当晚,可谓人山人海,众多的人士都赶往佛总、佛寺,买鲜花,莲花烛等膜拜,我当时在想,虽然有这么多人膜拜,但是我们当中,有多少人真的了解佛教的真正意义呢?大家是不是都为了各自的利益而前往膜拜?

可是,在大家像佛陀祈求的同时,我们是否忽略了佛教原本的意义?如果,我们没能了解当中的意义,我们的祈求又是否会灵验?

我本身也不是很懂佛教意义,只是大约知道佛教说,众生皆平等,善有善报,知足长乐!也就是说,一切生物皆平等,我们是否做到这点了呢?我们是否公平对待我们家的佣人?善有善报,也就是说要多做好事,就会有好报,我们有是否有慈悲的心胸?知足常乐,教我们要有感恩的心,要感谢我们所拥有的,千万不要人心不足!

当天,我看到最虚伪的膜拜人士,莫过于前往仁嘉隆東禪寺膜拜,又发表演说的。。。因为他完全与佛教教义背道而驰呀!你看,众生皆平等,他有做到吗?拜托看警卫怎么拖议长出去就知道了,善有善报,哈哈这个不用说了,知足常乐?拜托,有了中央还要霹雳,怎么知足常乐?

是的,在Vesak Day 膜拜的同时,我们是否了解佛教呢?众生皆平等,善有善报,知足常乐,我们又做得到多少%呢?

I'm talking about Vesak Day in this post, Vesak day was on 9th May 2009, also known as the birthday of buddha.

This year, I have to miss the buddha parade, because I have to attend an exhibition in Kuala Lumpur on the same day. Despite that, I've go for prayer ceremony on the eve of the Vesak Day, there were a lot of peoples there, offering flower, lotus candle, etc.

Suddenly, something flash to my mind, I just wonder, how many % out of those who come for prayer do really understand about buddhism, me, of course not understand in depth of it.

But to my mere understanding, I understand that buddhism teaches us that every creatures that lives in this world enjoy equal rights! you'll get positive blessing if you're doing something positive! You'll always be happy if you enjoy what you already have, and not always look for what you don't have!

Later, I read in the newspaper, Malaysia PM has gone to a famous buddhist temple and deliver a speech there, but I feel quite uneasy, because I don't see any value of the above explained in him!

Monday, May 11, 2009

冬阳虽短暂,却能销融冰山!

星云法师说:朝阳虽易逝,但滋润了大地; 冬阳虽短暂,却能消融冰霜,我们应趁着一息尚存,及时努力,燃烧生命的火花,留下灿烂的光辉,照亮后人!

就好象昨天高庭才宣布的尼查是合法的州务大臣一样,希望民联政府能借着这最后的一口气,发挥最大的效率,做得最好!那么,不管接下来会不会解散州议会,上诉庭,联邦法庭怎么判,我们人民将来都会支持你!国阵,你不必再浪费力气了,不管你如何争取,5年后的结局还是一样,因为我们已经看到50年来,你连新村地契都办不到,我们如何还能继续支持你?

是的,不管短暂还是长久,我们都要做得最好!活出生命的意义!
我们无法控制生命的长短,却应该活出生命的色彩,你认同吗?

“Nizar is the legitimate Perak Menteri Besar!"

"Mohd. Nizar Jamaludin is still the legitimate Menteri Besar!" The Malaysia high court judge, "Datuk Seri Zambry Abdul Kadir and all the six state executive councillors from the current ruling coalition should vacate their seats!" added the judge.

Yes, this is the decision that we have been long waiting for!

But there is still appealing court and federal court waiting in the future!

Let's keep our finger cross and hope that Sultan Azlan Shah may dissolve the state assembly!

马来西亚高庭法官今天宣判,“莫哈末尼查将是霹雳州的合法州务大臣!
赞比里和他的所有6名行政议员必须离开现在的职位!”

是的,这是我们引颈长盼的!

可是,未来我们还要面对上诉庭、联邦法院!

让我们一起诚心的希望苏丹阿芝兰沙能够解散州议会!

Sunday, May 10, 2009

一个匆忙的周末!A rush weekend!

刚度过了一个非常匆忙的周末!

星期五晚上,到了槟城佛总,参加了浴佛节目。

星期六一大清早就去了KL,准备参观展览会,今年的展览会规模的确缩小了不少!
以往,我们持VIP Badge 的一到还有自助餐吃,今年Cut budget 了哈!
连VIP lounge 里的食物也减少了。。。

然后,借着GPS的带领,去享用出名的吧生肉骨茶!汤的味道还真的不错!

接着,去买了Krispy Kreme daughnut。。。

星期日,早上驾车回槟城,下午有一个会馆的会议要出席,晚上又得出席一个婚宴!
哈哈。。。还真的是一个匆忙的周末!

不知你的卫塞节周末过得如何呢?

Friday, May 8, 2009

这东西竟然发生了!Oh my goodness!

I can never imagine this is happening in PERAK,Malaysia!
Police and strangers actually comes in to PERAK state assembly to grab the speaker away! According to Malaysiakini, Deputy Speaker, Hee Yit Foong is actually holding a pepper spray in her hand and spraying it towards the state assemblyman! (got the picture from http://www.malaysiakini.com/cn ) for full news report go to http://www.thenutgraph.com/perak-assembly-sitting
P/S my blog will be temporary in black and white to support the BERSIH organization!

我从来都没有想象到这事件会发生在马来西亚霹雳!
警察与几名大喊冲进州议会强行拉走议长!史无前例!
根据Malaysiakini报导,副议长,许月凤手握胡椒粉喷器!(图片取自http://www.malaysiakini.com/cn) 要读到完整的新闻,请去:http://www.thenutgraph.com/perak-assembly-sitting
我的Blog将暂时一黑白见人,支持净选联盟以及黄进发!



Thursday, May 7, 2009

母亲节快乐!Happy Mother's Day!

“世上只有妈妈好,有妈的孩子,像个宝。。。”是的,10/5/09 星期日,就是母亲节了!

有什么打算如何与母亲庆祝吗?必须记得,多年前,母亲是冒着生命的危险,把我们带到这世界上来的!

我个人是认为,母亲不会特别要求我们花费很多钱来和她庆祝,有时候,特地回家看看她,抱一下她,带她去吃一餐,告诉她你爱她,我想她也大概满足了吧!因为,母亲对我们的付出,永远都不求回报!

要及时感恩,不要等到一切都太迟了,才来后悔,毕竟树欲静而风不止,子欲养而亲不在的滋味不好受呀!

是的,今年的母亲节,你有何感想呢?有何打算呢?

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

人生目标,your goal!

"Who do you want to become in future?" the nursery teacher asks the little children in her class.
"I want to become a scientist!" "I want to become a pilot!" "I want to become an entrepreneur!"
All the children answer in childish and innocent voices...

Yes, those voices were all our voices years ago! We all have a dream while we're small, we do have big dreams when we were small!

"Who do you want to become?" The secondary school teacher ask her class, there were minutes of silence throughout the class....

Why do our goal, our dreams disappear as time passes by? What happen to our dreams / goals when we were small years ago? So, what's your goal? Let us remind ourself of our goal again!

“长大以后,你要当什么?”幼稚园老师问着小小的儿童。。。
“我要当工程师!”“我要当飞机师!”“我要当企业家!”
这些声音都来自于天真无邪的孩童呀!他们是多么的天真,可爱!

是的,那也曾经是你我的声音呀!我们多年前也曾经有过伟大的目标和梦想,不是吗?

“你们要当什么?”中学老师问着。。。班里一片宁静。。。大家你望我,我望你。。。

是的,我们曾经拥有的梦想、目标呢?为何随着年龄的增长,梦想、目标也越来越模糊了呢?
我们小时候曾经拥有的梦想与目标去了哪里了呢?你的目标是什么?让我们重温我们的目标吧!

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Black Thursday! 黑色星期四!

Yes, you got it right! It's black thursday not black friday!
For those who are concern about Malaysia democracy system, let's make it a black thursday tomorrow 7th May 2009!

This is a public demand from BERSIH, a body which makes up from many NGOs who are concern of having a clean, healthy and democratic MALAYSIA! They demand all people who are concern about Malaysia Democracy to wear black on May 7th 2009! take group pictures wearing in black and post it on the net!

To show the unsatisfaction of the people towards the undemocracy of Barisan Nasional! This is specially targeted to the Political Robbery case in Perak constitutional crisis!

Latest News:The spokeperson for BERSIH, 黄进发, who initiate this black thursday campaign was caught by Police under sedition act yesterday night!

So, if you support BERSIH, do wear black tomorrow!

是的,你没有听错!黑色星期四,不是星期五!
对于,那些关心我国民主的朋友,让我们一起创造黑色星期四吧!

这是一项来自于净选联盟大众要求, 他们要求所有大众穿上黑衣,然后拍下群体照,放上网!
一起告诉国阵政府,我们反对腐败的民主政策!让我们一起宣泄我们的不满!主要是要表达我们对Perak强盗式的改朝换代手法极度不满!

最新消息:来自净选联盟,也是这次黑色星期四的发起人,黄进发,已经在昨晚遭到警方以扇动法令逮捕!

如果,你愿意支持净选联盟,就一起在明天穿黑色吧!

智慧牙续篇。。。 Wisdom Tooth to continue...

Thanks for all your concern, today afternoon I manage to get an appointment slot in Penang Dental, one of the famous dental in Penang.

The dentist ask me to open my mouth and make some detail examination of the wisdom tooth, "No worries..." he said, "Don't have to undergo operation, you just give me 2 minutes, I'll take away your pain!" he told me. I'm so glad to hear that! But I'm quite curious on how he can do it "How you make it?" I asked in puzzle.

"Ok, I'll explain to you!" the dentist continue while straightened up my dental chair, "Your wisdom tooth growing on the back, it actually crashes with your gum, I'm now going to use this hi-speed polisher, to polish your wisdom tooth, so that it become smaller, this should stop your pain without operation! If the pain still continue, you may visit again, I'll use the hi-tech laser treatment to operate your gum without pain!" I feel safe and secure now with his detail explanation.

5 minutes later, my pain are gone, I went back happily, and guess how much I pay for it? RM45 only! Very cheap and good!

感谢各位的关心,今天下午我终于得到了一个预约时间,前往Penang Dental 去检查牙齿!Penang Dental 在槟城还蛮出名的!

到了那边,医生叫我张开嘴然后仔细地检查,“不用怕!以我的经验,我认为你不必开刀,只需2分钟就可以解决你的问题了!”他告诉我,听了之后我多么高兴呀!可是我还是很好奇,“你怎么做呢”我问他。

“好,我解释给你听。。。”他一边把我的椅子放直,一边说着,“你后边的智慧牙,顶到了你的牙龈,所以牙龈肿了!我现在可以用高速磨刀,把你那颗智慧牙磨平些,就应该不会痛了!如果再痛的话,也不必开刀,我们可以用高科技的Laser Treatment 在你牙龈开个洞给智慧牙!”听了之后,我真的很安心。。。

5分钟后,痛没有了,高高兴兴的回家去,诊费多少钱呢?才RM45。。。真的很满意!

Monday, May 4, 2009

Wisdom Tooth, 智慧牙!

For the past 2 weeks, I've been suffering from the pain of wisdom tooth growing in the confined space! Wow, it's painful!

I don't know why they call it wisdom tooth, does it means that I've more wisdom now by having the wisdom tooth? haha... I don't think so!

The terrible part is I've made 2 visits to normal dentist, both of them says that there is not much things they can do unless I undergo an minor surgery to remove it. Else they can only apply some antibiotics to temporary ease the pain.

Since last week, I've been calling the famous Penang Dental for dental appointment, to do a thorough check up on my wisdom tooth, waiting to get their professional advice before I made up my mind of whether or not undergo a minor surgery to remove it. But their appointment was so full that I'm still unable to get a date by today!

For me, I'm not afraid of undergoing surgery operation, but if I can have the wisdom tooth in my mouth without pain, then why should I remove it?

Do you ever experience the pain of wisdom tooth? Did you undergo any surgery to remove it? Hope you can share it with me!

上2个星期,我长智慧牙了,哎哟,现在痛得要命!

不知道为什么会把把那只多出来的牙齿称为智慧牙?难道那是代表智慧?哈哈。。。我不这么认为!

最糟糕的是,我去看了两次牙医,他们都告诉我,不能做什么的,除非你开刀切除那智慧牙,否则我们只能暂时性帮你止痛!

我自上个星期就开始打电话要预约,槟城相当有名的Penang Dental 以做个详细的检查,再看是否要开刀,可是怎么他们的预约那么满呢?嗨。。。我是不想随便开刀,我想至少在开刀之前要做个详细的检查,再听听多几个专家的劝告!如果,智慧牙没有害处的话,我宁可不开刀呀!多了一颗无价之宝的牙齿,何乐而不为呀?嘻嘻,可是如果真的没有办法去除疼痛了,就要开咯!

你们有长智慧牙的经验吗?有没有开刀切除那颗牙?

Sunday, May 3, 2009

100%results = 100% intention + 0% mechanism

If your results are 100%, how many % belongs to intention and how many % belongs to mechanism?

Let me clarify here that, intention is your desire to do it, mechanism is how you do it!
If we've decided to spend our vacation in Hong Kong, intention is your desire to go to Hong Kong, mechanism is how you reach there, either by Cathay Pacific, Virgin Atlantic, United Airlines, or Cruise or train from China. If result is that you've landed in Hong Kong, how important is your intention and how important is your mechanism in carrying you to Hong Kong?

Once, I attended a seminar, the speaker suggest that, it's 100% of your intention that get you to a place, and 0% mechanism. It's rather simple, if you don't want to go to a place, you will not even care of how you can reach there, agree? Hence 100% of the results is equal to 100% of your intention.

如果你的成绩有100%的话,100%都是来自你强烈的企图心,0%是来自方法,你认同吗?

让我在这里澄清,假设一个人想要去香港旅游,他的成绩就是踏在香港这片土地上,他的企图心,就是他想要去香港的欲望,方法则可能是乘搭国泰航空客机,亚洲航空客机,马航还是新航?又或是乘搭游轮?火车(从中国大陆前来)?

曾经参加过一个课程,讲师说,“如果你有强烈的企图心要完成一件事,方法可以说几乎是不重要的,你将会想尽办法去完成它,因此成绩是100%来自企图心而非方法!”很简单的,如果你不想要去香港,你根本不会去理会什么航空有飞去香港,对吧?

所以,今天如果你成功了,那就是说你有强烈的企图心想要成功!如果你失败了,也就是说你的企图心不够!因此,心态最重要!

是的,一个人的心态,一个人的企图心,决定他的成功与失败,决定他的成绩!你认为如何?

Saturday, May 2, 2009

“你喜欢我什么?”

“你喜欢我什么?”这时一对热恋的情侣当中,女生最喜欢问男生的问题。。。

是的,“你喜欢我什么?”这句话问得好!对男生来说,也的确不容易回答!

我不懂一般上男生是会怎么回答,或许就把她的优点告诉她吧!

可是之前当我遇到这问题时,我把我最真实的感受说出来,“我真的说不出我喜欢你什么!因为喜欢是一种整体的感觉!如果我因为你的外貌或身材而喜欢你,那你以后老了,身材走样了怎么办?我也不会因为你的一些特别的优点而喜欢你,要不然以后你那有点没有了怎么办?我喜欢你就是因为,你就是你!就是因为,我喜欢和你在一起的整体感觉!”

可是,有时候女生好像对这样诚实的答案没什么兴趣,还硬是要逼你说出你喜欢她的某种特定原因!

是的,当你喜欢一个人时,你会否因为某种特定原因而喜欢他?又或者你是喜欢和他在一起的整体感觉呢?