Outlook important? 外表重要吗？

最近，经常看到一些男孩子忙着去健身，希望能有结实的肌肉来吸引女孩；另一方面，则看到一些女生忙着去美容中心护肤，养颜来吸引男生。

外表真的在一段感情里扮演着这么重要的角色吗？

如果我们问男生、女生，你一年内花费多少钱来增加你外表的吸引力？我想那肯定很多！可是，如果我们问，你一年内花费多少钱来增加你内在的魅力？我想应该不多，或者甚至没有！

我从来不否认外表的确是重要，因为美丽的外表能吸引人家的注意力！可是，要维持一段感情考的应该是内在呀！
因为外表是短暂的，只有内在才能永恒！

随着今天的科技，只要你有钱，你可以毫不费力地美化一个人的外表，就算一个丑小鸭，也能变成飞天鹅！可是，以同样的钱、科技，你却不能美化一个人的内在！内在是不能被美化的，除非你自己肯付出！

是的，你能轻而易举的美化外表，却不能如此轻易地美化内在，所以说，内在比外表来得重要，你认同吗？

Well.. recently I see some of my guys friends going to gym, keen to get his body shape up so that they can attract girls. On the other hand, I see some of my girls’ friends going to saloon, keen to change a new outlook to attract guys.

Is outlook really so important in a relationship?

To me, it’s insane that so many people are caring about their outlook,
but there are really not much people caring about their inner beauty.
If you ask agirls / guys how much they spend each year to shop for clothes? I assure you, the amount is going to be huge.
But what if you ask them, how much money do you spend each year to build a better inner self? toattend seminar, training, etc? I assure you, the amount will not be big, or not even spending.

I never deny that outlook is important, outlook attracts people attention, but it’s inner beauty that mantain arelationship. I don’t care if you have the perfect bodyshape, etc. But if I choose to be with you, the reason must be because of your inner beauty.
Outlook is short and temporary, what last forever is our inner strength.

With the technology today, you can beautify a girl easily, if you have the money, it's possible to convert an ugly, disgusting girl to miss universe. But with the same technology, you’re not able to beautify the innerstrength of a person. Unless they take action to go for it.

Yes, with the technology we have today, we can beautify our outlook with money, but you can't do the same to increase our inner beauty / inner strength, do you agree with this statement?