Sunday, May 17, 2009

失败?别怕!Failure? Don't worry!

当我们还小的时候,当我们还在求学时,如果我们考到不好的成绩,
父母就会把那解读为愚笨、失败!
对我来说,这世上是没有愚笨、失败的,除非你自己认为你是如此!

我相信:-
1. 过去的失败不代表你以后也将失败!我不管过去你失败过几次,因为那无法代表什么,只要你肯从失败中学习然后再站起来再试!所以,过去的失败根本不能代表什么!
2. 没有失败,只有暂时停止成功!只要我们不停的学习,站起来然后再试,那就永远没有失败,只有暂时停止成功!
3. 这世界上没有人能打败你,除了你自己!只有你自己可以决定你是失败的!

是的,我相信这世界上过去的失败,不代表以后都失败!没有失败,只有暂时停止成功,没有人能打败你,只有你能打败你自己!你,认同吗?


When we’re small and when we’re in schools, if we get low grades in the exam,
our parents define that as stupid and failure.
To me, nobody in this world is stupid or failure, unless he, himself think so.

I believe in the following:-
1. Failing in the past does not means you’re going to fail in the future. I don’t care how many times you’ve fail in the past, that does not shows me anything, as long as you can learn from mistake and redo again, then failing in the past does not carry any meaning.
2. There is no failure, but temporary delay of success.There is never a failure, unless we admit it. There isonly a temporary delay of success, as long as we stand up again, there is nothing as failure.
3. Nobody can beat you, only you, yourself. Nobody in this world can beat you, only you, yourself can define yourself as failure.

Yes, to me, failing in the past does not means anything in the future! There is no railure, only a temporary delay of success! Nobody can beat you, only you, yourself can define yourself as failure! Do you agree to that?

20 comments:

  1. 呵呵!失败的定义是什么?
    不能达到别人眼中的标准就是失败吗?
    成功的目标是自定的,只要你达到自己设下的标准,你就已经是成功了!

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  2. 没有失败,只有暂时停止成功!

    嗯。。。这恐怕要有很强意志力的人才能办到!

    可惜我不是。。。嘻嘻

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  3. 寒雨,是啊,成功的定义是自己定下的。。。所以,是没有失败的!

    567, 是啊,没有失败只有暂时停止成功!哈哈。。。要有意志力!

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  4. 怎么了?发生什么失败的事情了吗?

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  5. The greatest success in life is to have courage to stand up again after a failure.. but how many of us can accomplish?

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  6. 你走向的路越失败,越代表你会成功。失败和成功的定义只是一线之差~yes, agree, no one can beat you, except you !

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  7. 有失败才会珍惜成功的成果。^_^

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  8. 跌倒了就爬起来吧。。那是唯一的办法

    嗯,珍惜现有的一切

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  9. Eva, 目前没有面对什么失败啦,只是曾经在激励讲座上学到的,拿来和大家分享!

    Joanna Tang, You're right, to stand up again after a failure! Not easy to do, you need a lot of motivation and encouragement from friends. Hence a positive circle of friends helps a lot!

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  10. 文,Yes, nobody can beat you, except yourself!

    花木兰,是啊,有失败才会知道成功的来不易!

    Valyn, 是啊,跌倒了要爬起来,珍惜现在的一切!

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  11. believe yourself, make your dream come true^^

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  12. 失败是成功之母哦!!

    讲容易,做就很难:0(

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  13. 爱丽丝,Yes, you're right! make our dreams come true!

    Candygan, 是啊,要做的确不是很容易啊!

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  14. 是的,失败其实不代表什么,只是代表一时的失误,只要加以改进,下次可能就会成功了!

    Ting

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  15. Thank goodness you have your post in English because I can't read Mandarin...:)

    Failure isn't the end. It's an opportunity to better oneself. Like what you said, no one is a failure unless he sees himself as one.

    Thanks for visiting and leaving your comment.

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  16. There's one golden rule I always remind myself: Always Make New Mistakes.

    Failure? SO WHAT?

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  17. Mei Teng, I always try to post articles in bilingual, so that people from different background may understand it. Yes, you're right failure isn't the end of anything!

    Beverly Secret, You're right, always make new attempt, so what if it ends up fail?

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