“如果我有一百万，我会买车买屋子。。。”黄一飞的这首福建歌，唱得家喻户晓，这么多人喜欢的原因，我想是因为，他正好唱出很多人的心声，很多人都想有一百万！一百万，看似遥远，却又那么近！对那些在马来西亚吸烟的人士，‘恭喜你！你就是每年花费8百万令吉的一群！’是的，我国的烟民每年平均花费8百万，来吞咽吐雾，来买癌症，来缩短生命！
有些男士认为，吸了烟男士气概尽露无疑，展现了男人的作风！可是，他们不知道吸烟会硬化我们的血管，而男性在勃起时是需要大量的血流向阴茎，所以说，吸烟是导致性无能的最佳良方！
在2007年，吸烟者占据了中国性无能男士中的四分之一！
我打从心底不喜欢那些手不离烟酒的亲人，因为他们比谁都还自私，只顾自己短暂的快乐，缩短自己的性命，让爱他的人提早受苦。
我们必须知道，我们活在这世界上，是不能单独生活的。所以，我们所做的每一个大大小小地决定都会影响到我们身边的人。因此，每当有人说，“我要抽烟，喝酒，又没用到你的钱，管你屁事？”我都会觉得他们很不知所谓。如果他们中了干癌或肺癌，你说他们家人会怎样？
有些人说，“不是每个吸烟喝酒的人都会出事的，有些不抽烟喝酒也短命！”我只好说，“那是你自欺欺人的‘国阵’想法！”只因为他们都像马来西亚国阵政府一样，宁可继续自甘堕落，也不愿重视民意数据。
人不贵于无过，只贵于肯改过，回头是岸吧！
下一次如果有烟民高唱，‘如果我有一百万。。。’我们就告诉他，不用如果了，戒掉烟，你就能够享用那8百万的其中一部分了！
是的，我觉的吸烟是破坏健康的，也破坏了身边朋友对健康，也将导致性无能，所以何必花费8百万来买这些负面的健康呢？你认同吗？
Talking about smoking cigarettes in this post. In Malaysia, every year smokers spend RM8 million to purchase cigarettes, which is also equivalent to purchase 'higher cancer rate, shorter lifespend!'
Some guys may think that smoking may show their manhood, their style as a MAN! Since a lot of cigarettes advertisement says, "Elegance, Style, Quality!" But smoking actually harden the blood vessels, which may block the blood flow in our body! Blood flow is an important factor in sexual activities, for men! Hence, I could safely conclude that smoking may finally lead to sexual disability in future for men!
To back my statement above, in 2007 alone, smokers stands 25% or one quarter of the total number of sexual disability patient!
To me, I think smoking is a selfish act, because smokers actually enjoy short term happiness, and bring long term pain to their family members when they pass away earlier...
Many people may like to sing a hokkien song from Huang Yit Fei "If I have 1 million, I will buy a house, buy a car..." next time, if a smoker sing this, we should tell him "Why IF? you can be part of the RM8million owner, if you stop smoking!"
Yes, smoking actually spends us a lot of money and yet jeopardise our health, hence let's STOP SMOKING immediately! do you agree with quitting smoking?
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Monday, May 18, 2009
Outlook important? 外表重要吗？
最近，经常看到一些男孩子忙着去健身，希望能有结实的肌肉来吸引女孩；另一方面，则看到一些女生忙着去美容中心护肤，养颜来吸引男生。
外表真的在一段感情里扮演着这么重要的角色吗？
如果我们问男生、女生，你一年内花费多少钱来增加你外表的吸引力？我想那肯定很多！可是，如果我们问，你一年内花费多少钱来增加你内在的魅力？我想应该不多，或者甚至没有！
我从来不否认外表的确是重要，因为美丽的外表能吸引人家的注意力！可是，要维持一段感情考的应该是内在呀！
因为外表是短暂的，只有内在才能永恒！
随着今天的科技，只要你有钱，你可以毫不费力地美化一个人的外表，就算一个丑小鸭，也能变成飞天鹅！可是，以同样的钱、科技，你却不能美化一个人的内在！内在是不能被美化的，除非你自己肯付出！
是的，你能轻而易举的美化外表，却不能如此轻易地美化内在，所以说，内在比外表来得重要，你认同吗？
Well.. recently I see some of my guys friends going to gym, keen to get his body shape up so that they can attract girls. On the other hand, I see some of my girls’ friends going to saloon, keen to change a new outlook to attract guys.
Is outlook really so important in a relationship?
To me, it’s insane that so many people are caring about their outlook,
but there are really not much people caring about their inner beauty.
If you ask agirls / guys how much they spend each year to shop for clothes? I assure you, the amount is going to be huge.
But what if you ask them, how much money do you spend each year to build a better inner self? toattend seminar, training, etc? I assure you, the amount will not be big, or not even spending.
I never deny that outlook is important, outlook attracts people attention, but it’s inner beauty that mantain arelationship. I don’t care if you have the perfect bodyshape, etc. But if I choose to be with you, the reason must be because of your inner beauty.
Outlook is short and temporary, what last forever is our inner strength.
With the technology today, you can beautify a girl easily, if you have the money, it's possible to convert an ugly, disgusting girl to miss universe. But with the same technology, you’re not able to beautify the innerstrength of a person. Unless they take action to go for it.
Yes, with the technology we have today, we can beautify our outlook with money, but you can't do the same to increase our inner beauty / inner strength, do you agree with this statement?
外表真的在一段感情里扮演着这么重要的角色吗？
如果我们问男生、女生，你一年内花费多少钱来增加你外表的吸引力？我想那肯定很多！可是，如果我们问，你一年内花费多少钱来增加你内在的魅力？我想应该不多，或者甚至没有！
我从来不否认外表的确是重要，因为美丽的外表能吸引人家的注意力！可是，要维持一段感情考的应该是内在呀！
因为外表是短暂的，只有内在才能永恒！
随着今天的科技，只要你有钱，你可以毫不费力地美化一个人的外表，就算一个丑小鸭，也能变成飞天鹅！可是，以同样的钱、科技，你却不能美化一个人的内在！内在是不能被美化的，除非你自己肯付出！
是的，你能轻而易举的美化外表，却不能如此轻易地美化内在，所以说，内在比外表来得重要，你认同吗？
Well.. recently I see some of my guys friends going to gym, keen to get his body shape up so that they can attract girls. On the other hand, I see some of my girls’ friends going to saloon, keen to change a new outlook to attract guys.
Is outlook really so important in a relationship?
To me, it’s insane that so many people are caring about their outlook,
but there are really not much people caring about their inner beauty.
If you ask agirls / guys how much they spend each year to shop for clothes? I assure you, the amount is going to be huge.
But what if you ask them, how much money do you spend each year to build a better inner self? toattend seminar, training, etc? I assure you, the amount will not be big, or not even spending.
I never deny that outlook is important, outlook attracts people attention, but it’s inner beauty that mantain arelationship. I don’t care if you have the perfect bodyshape, etc. But if I choose to be with you, the reason must be because of your inner beauty.
Outlook is short and temporary, what last forever is our inner strength.
With the technology today, you can beautify a girl easily, if you have the money, it's possible to convert an ugly, disgusting girl to miss universe. But with the same technology, you’re not able to beautify the innerstrength of a person. Unless they take action to go for it.
Yes, with the technology we have today, we can beautify our outlook with money, but you can't do the same to increase our inner beauty / inner strength, do you agree with this statement?
Sunday, May 17, 2009
失败？别怕！Failure? Don't worry!
当我们还小的时候，当我们还在求学时，如果我们考到不好的成绩，
父母就会把那解读为愚笨、失败！
对我来说，这世上是没有愚笨、失败的，除非你自己认为你是如此！
我相信：-
1. 过去的失败不代表你以后也将失败！我不管过去你失败过几次，因为那无法代表什么，只要你肯从失败中学习然后再站起来再试！所以，过去的失败根本不能代表什么！
2. 没有失败，只有暂时停止成功！只要我们不停的学习，站起来然后再试，那就永远没有失败，只有暂时停止成功！
3. 这世界上没有人能打败你，除了你自己！只有你自己可以决定你是失败的！
是的，我相信这世界上过去的失败，不代表以后都失败！没有失败，只有暂时停止成功，没有人能打败你，只有你能打败你自己！你，认同吗？
When we’re small and when we’re in schools, if we get low grades in the exam,
our parents define that as stupid and failure.
To me, nobody in this world is stupid or failure, unless he， himself think so.
I believe in the following:-
1. Failing in the past does not means you’re going to fail in the future. I don’t care how many times you’ve fail in the past, that does not shows me anything, as long as you can learn from mistake and redo again, then failing in the past does not carry any meaning.
2. There is no failure, but temporary delay of success.There is never a failure, unless we admit it. There isonly a temporary delay of success, as long as we stand up again, there is nothing as failure.
3. Nobody can beat you, only you, yourself. Nobody in this world can beat you, only you, yourself can define yourself as failure.
Yes, to me, failing in the past does not means anything in the future! There is no railure, only a temporary delay of success! Nobody can beat you, only you, yourself can define yourself as failure! Do you agree to that?
父母就会把那解读为愚笨、失败！
对我来说，这世上是没有愚笨、失败的，除非你自己认为你是如此！
我相信：-
1. 过去的失败不代表你以后也将失败！我不管过去你失败过几次，因为那无法代表什么，只要你肯从失败中学习然后再站起来再试！所以，过去的失败根本不能代表什么！
2. 没有失败，只有暂时停止成功！只要我们不停的学习，站起来然后再试，那就永远没有失败，只有暂时停止成功！
3. 这世界上没有人能打败你，除了你自己！只有你自己可以决定你是失败的！
是的，我相信这世界上过去的失败，不代表以后都失败！没有失败，只有暂时停止成功，没有人能打败你，只有你能打败你自己！你，认同吗？
When we’re small and when we’re in schools, if we get low grades in the exam,
our parents define that as stupid and failure.
To me, nobody in this world is stupid or failure, unless he， himself think so.
I believe in the following:-
1. Failing in the past does not means you’re going to fail in the future. I don’t care how many times you’ve fail in the past, that does not shows me anything, as long as you can learn from mistake and redo again, then failing in the past does not carry any meaning.
2. There is no failure, but temporary delay of success.There is never a failure, unless we admit it. There isonly a temporary delay of success, as long as we stand up again, there is nothing as failure.
3. Nobody can beat you, only you, yourself. Nobody in this world can beat you, only you, yourself can define yourself as failure.
Yes, to me, failing in the past does not means anything in the future! There is no railure, only a temporary delay of success! Nobody can beat you, only you, yourself can define yourself as failure! Do you agree to that?
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